357 Training Whales

357 Training Whales

When SeaWorld first opened I took one of my grandsons to watch training the whales. I leaned a simple lesson that can be used in most relationship. The trainer would set the a bar at a starting level, when the whale reach that level the trainer would reward the whale with a treat. When the whale failed to reach the new level the trainer paid no attention to the whale, [note the whale was not punished]. The trained continued raising the bar each time the whale reach the new goal until the whale had reached the desired goal. Try this with someone you love; each time they do something that pleases you let them know you really like that. When they do something that does not please you don’t pay any attention to it [don’t punish them or show your displeasure], just let it pass by unattended. Do this for 40 days; don’t tell them what you are doing, just do it. Yes, I know we are not whales but most of us love to be told or shown when we are sharing something of value with a love one. Thy Love be done.

Random Awakening

A generous friend suggested that I’m a Spiritual trilingual; I am a person who can communicate the Spiritual languages with equal fluency.