Daily Reflections

August 9

". . . OF ALL PERSONS WE HAD HARMED"

. . . and became willing to make amends to them all.

TWELVE STEPS AND TWELVE TRADITIONS, p 77

    One of the key words in the Eighth Step is the word all. I am not free to select a few names for the list and to disregard others. It is a list of all persons I have harmed. I can see immediately that this Step entails forgiveness because if I' m not willing to forgive someone, there is little chance I will place his name on the list. Before I placed the first name on my list, I said a little prayer: " I forgive anyone and everyone who has ever harmed me at any time and under any circumstances."
     It is well for me to contemplate a small, but very significant, two-letter word very time the Lord's Prayer is said. The word is as. I ask, "Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us." In this case, as means, "in the same manner." I am asking to be forgiven in the same manner that I forgive others. As I say this portion of the prayer, if I am harboring hatred or resentment, I am inviting more resentment, when I should be calling on the spirit of forgiveness.

 
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