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The
American Weekly
March 11, 1951
Dr.
Bob - His Only Monument Is a Plaque, but the Thousands He
Helped Rescue From Alcoholism Will Never Forget Him.
By
Booton Herndon
The
kindly faced man lying in the white hospital bed raised
his hand to the light, studied it calmly and then remarked
to the nurse standing by his bed: "I think this is
it."
Thus
Dr. Bob S. recently passed from the world. So, finally,
the story of "Dr. Bob, beloved by 120,000 members of
Alcoholics Anonymous whom he had helped to find the way
back to respectability and happiness, can be told. At the
death of his wife, Anne, a year before, Dr. Bob's identity
had been revealed, but the story of the co-founder of A.A.
remained a secret.
Dr.
Bob was a boy in New England, 72 years ago, and his mother
sent him to bed at 5 o'clock every evening. Just as regularly
did he secretly arise, dress, and slip out the back way
to continue the game with his boyhood pals.
He
learned early to revolt against authority.
When
he went away to college he became a steady drinker. He had
always wanted to be a doctor but his strong willed mother
had always opposed it, and it was three years after he graduated
from Dartmouth before he got up the courage to go to medical
school. He drank so continuously he just did manage to get
his degree.
Once
he went off on such a protracted binge that his fraternity
brothers had to send for his father to straighten him out.
All
this time Bob was corresponding with Anne, his high school
sweetheart. That was as far as their courtship went. With
the exception of two hard working years as an intern, he
was seldom sober. Still, Anne, waiting for a miracle, married
no one else.
The
miracle happened, apparently, after a year-long period of
heavy drinking left him terrified and on the wagon. In 1915
when he was 35 years old and some 17 years after he had
first met her, he married Anne and brought her to Akron
with him as his bride. They were happy for several years
- until the Eighteenth Amendment was passed.
The
Grapevine, the official magazine of Alcoholics Anonymous,
explains in the weird logic of the alcoholic what happened
then. Dr. Bob figured that since he'd soon be unable to
get any more alcohol, he might as well drink up what there
was. Despite prohibition, he never found it difficult to
get more. From then on, he had a regular pattern. He began
drinking every afternoon at four. Every morning he'd quite
his tortured nerves with sedatives and, trembling, go to
work to make enough money to buy alcohol for four o'clock.
That
went on for 15 years.
In
the meantime, a New York broker who had drunk himself out
of prominence discovered that when he was trying to talk
drunks into going on the wagon, he had less craving for
liquor. This broker, known to A.A.'s as Bill W., went to
Akron on a business deal in 1935. The deal fell through
and Bill found himself once more a failure, with only 2$
in his pocket. He knew right away that he had his choice:
find a drunk to talk to, or get drunk himself.
Fortunately,
he found a drunk, Dr. Bob.
Bill
moved in with Dr. Bob and straightened him out. When he
and Dr. Bob wanted a drink, they'd go out and find a drunk
to talk to. They sobered up a number of habitual drinkers
in Akron that way and then their fame began reaching out
to other cities. Slowly, gradually, the idea spread. Almost
before Dr. Bob and Bill, the co-founders, were aware of
it, Alcoholics Anonymous was a going concern.
The
book, Alcoholics Anonymous, was written. It is now in its
13th printing. People began to write in from all over the
world. Some were alcoholics themselves, some were mothers,
fathers, sisters, brothers, husbands, wives or friends of
alcoholics. They all got an answer. Dr. Bob, who had devoted
half his life to drinking, still found himself a slave to
alcohol - only now it was on the other fellow's breath.
He personally visited some 5,000 in Akron hospitals, encouraging
them. As his period of sobriety increased, more and more
patients came to him, and it looked as though one part of
his ambition, to own a convertible, might not be impossible
after all.
Finally
he made it. Last year he got a new yellow convertible.
The
Grapevine pictures him, at the age of 71, speeding through
the streets of Akron in it ."the long slim lines made
even more rakish with the top down. No hat, his face to
the sun, into the driveway he sped. Pebbles, flying, tires
screeching, he'd swoosh to a stop.
And,
just then, before he put 150 miles on the gleaming yellow
convertible, Dr. Bob's malignant disease took a turn for
the worse and he had to give up driving.
He
died a few months later.
Bill
W. explained why there will be no imposing monument to this
man who saved so many people from alcoholism. When it was
once suggested, last year,
Dr.
Bob said: "Anne and I plan to be buried just like other
folks."
And
so only a simple plaque in the alcoholic ward of St. Thomas
Hospital in Akron, where Dr. Bob did so much of his work,
commemorates his work as co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous.
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