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AMERICA,
June 10, 1950
ALCOHOLICS
ANONYMOUS
by Edward Duff
Dr.
Harry M. Tiebout, psychiatrist at Blythewood Sanatarium,
Greenwich, Connecticut, faced his professional confreres
at the
34th Annual Meeting of the American Psychopathological Association
held in New York City five years ago this spring. There
was much
interest in professional circles in a dramatic new cure
for
alcoholism. The ingenuity of psychiatrists had been exercised
to
explain the success of the program in terms of "homosexual
outlet," "dependency upon a father person,"
"opportunity to
exploit exhibitionistic, narcissistic trends" and the
all-encompassing efficacy of "group therapy."
Obviously, there
must be some "X-factor" explaining the success
of this amateur
technique that duplicated so much of the standard - but
pretty
fruitless - recommendations of medicine and psychology.
Dr.
Tiebout identified this "X-factor" for his fellow
psychiatrists.
It was, he said, "a religious component, a spiritual
development,
a belief in God - a conversion."
Dr.
Tiebout was appraising the program of Alcoholics
Anonymous, an informal fellowship of arrested alcoholics,
then
numbering nearly 15,000 men and women. If he were addressing
the
psychiatric profession this year, he could count on a much
wider
understanding of his theme. For 96,475 people in 34 countries
will
tell you today that they have stopped drinking through A.A.
The
fraternity and sorority of ex-drunks is increasing at the
rate of
more than 20,000 a year - an achievement that has won the
interest
and the applause of prominent spokesmen for medicine and
religion.
As
a matter of fact, Alcoholics Anonymous had been in
existence for a decade before it became the subject of discussions
before medical societies. Its beginnings go back to a night
in
November, 1934, with a former Wall Street broker sitting
in his
kitchen wondering where, before his wife returned, he could
hide
the bottle of gin needed to tide him over till morning.
He
desperately desired to stop drinking but found himself helpless.
Promising business opportunities he had ruined beyond remedy.
Continuous trips to hospitals and sanitariums had at last
brought
the verdict that he faced no more than a year of life before
the
inevitable heart attack during delirium tremens. Blank,
terrifying
despair coupled with an insatiable, murderous craving for
alcohol
made the hiding of that bottle the most pressing concern
of his
life.
His
reverie was interrupted by the visit of an old school
friend, a familiar drinking companion of former days, rumored
to
have been committed as an alcoholic psychotic. The rumor
was
obviously mad, triumphantly false. For here was the former
drinking companion with hew health, a new and strange serenity
and
a new and curious idea: God could manage our lives if we
would
only allow Him. It was an idea he had learned from the Oxford
Group, the disciples of Dr. Frank Buchman, with their teaching
of
Surrender, Sharing, Change, Quiet Time and Witnessing, and
the
four imperatives - Absolute Honesty, Absolute Purity, Absolute
Unselfishness and Absolute Love. That had been enough to
beat John
Barleycorn and supply a new vision of a God-centered way
of
living.
Ancient
prejudices against religion were mocked by evidence
of the buoyant happiness that came from someone's saying
very
simply that God had done for him what he could not do for
himself.
The protestations of the ex-stockbroker that he knew little
about
God and believed less were met with the suggestion that
a
willingness to believe in a Power greater than one's self
would
suffice. A trip to the hospital to dry out provided an opportunity
for a complete surrender to God. A determination to make
personal
reparation for wrong done to others brought a wonderful
sense of
victory, a fresh confidence and a resolve to bring to other
hopeless alcoholics the encouraging and saving message of
God's
nearness to those who want Him.
A
business trip to Akron the following spring gave the
sometime broker an opportunity - indeed a compulsion - to
carry
out his resolve. Tense because of a setback in a dragged-out
law
suit, he felt he must help someone or lose himself in self-pity
and, consequently, in alcohol. Providentially, he was introduced
to a surgeon, a despairing victim of drink, who responded
to the
message of hope - that God exalts the humble and strongly
supports
those who put their lives in His keeping. In the local Catholic
hospital the doctor and the businessman brought fellow alcoholics
the assurance that there is a way out for those who want
to stop
drinking. The two were soon five, then a group overflowing
the
doctor's home for the weekly gatherings, then a fraternity
spread
across the country by salesmen who carried with their lines
of
goods a new and compelling idea.
By
April, 1939 there were a hundred whose pooled experience
was set down in a book that reached Dr. Tiebout at his Greenwich
sanitarium in its provisional multilithed form. He gave
it to a
thirty-four-year-old woman alcoholic whose character structure,
he
confessed, defeated all of his skills and all of her own
pitiable
resolves. The book she read contained a collection of case
histories of people who had conquered their addiction to
alcohol.
It contained also a good deal of hard headed advice, and
it
outlined a Program of Recovery. The way out of the squirrel-cage
of shakes, night sweats, jittery nerves and horrible dreams,
she
read, consisted of twelve steps, none of which could be
skipped.
The ladder to sobriety for a hundred ex-drunks had been
sealed,
these ex-alcoholics said, when:
1.
We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives
had
become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could
restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to
the care
of God as we understood Him.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being
the
exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects
of
character.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing
to
make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible,
except
when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and, when we were
wrong,
promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our
conscious
contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for
knowledge
of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these
steps,
we tried to carry this message to alcoholics and to practice
these
principles in all our affairs.
(In
the Twelfth Step "spiritual awakening" was substituted
for the
phrase "spiritual experience" employed in the
first printing of
the book, Alcoholics Anonymous. An overwhelming and sensible
emotional upheaval, it was learned, did not always accompany
acceptance of the Twelve-Step Program of Recovery. Nor was
it
needed: an inevitable alteration of attitude followed gradually
any honest determination to give the greater Power management
of
one's life.)
Dr.
Tiebout's patient was impressed by the book he gave her.
She attended a meeting of a group of Alcoholics Anonymous,
listened to personal accounts of how the program had worked
for
others and soon became an active member of the group. The
psychiatrist described the consequent personality change
in his
patient as a dissolving of the character structure which
had been
blocking all help.
Intensive
research over the past several years has failed to
establish a common "character structure" in people
for whom one
drink is too much and a thousand not enough. Perhaps, as
some
scientists hold, there is a physical rather than a psychic
deficiency afflicting our three million problem drinkers.
Whether
excessive drinking produces or is the product of personality
disorders, there is certainly an emotional immaturity noted
in
alcoholics of which addiction to the bottle is only a symptom.
There is a rooted dissatisfaction with life, manifesting
itself in
festering resentments, flight from responsibility, displays
of
grandiosity, all operating in a penumbra of fear, concealed
self-doubt and whining self-pity. Spiritual writers have
always
labeled such self-centeredness as "pride," and
have acknowledged
that pride can flourish in a person who is not all vain.
The
classic cure for pride, religion teaches, is humiliations.
Humiliations
engendering humility are inevitable for anyone
attempting the A.A. Twelve Steps. There is the initial
acknowledgment of helplessness, jettisoning the protestation
that
the alcoholic can somehow by some ingenious change of habits
join
the ranks of America's 60 million "social drinkers."
The false and
grasping self, getting in the way of God's management, must
be
cauterized by ruthless self-examination, the smothering
of all
resentments and the honest reparation of all injuries to
others,
whatever the cost to self-esteem. Prayer to keep one's mind
responsive to God is imperative, despite all ridicule of
religiosity. Apostolic activity on behalf of other alcoholics,
however inconvenient and unpleasant, is held essential as
an
expression of gratitude to God and a self-strengthening
service of
others.
For
the Twelve Steps are to be a new way of life, a kind of
living that counts on God's incessant interest and expresses
that
reliance by unconcern for the future. Living is reduced
to a
manageable Twenty-Four-Hour Plan, with "Easy Does It"
as the motto
of a trust that relaxes tensions.
That
is the program that an A.A. will explain when called to
help a fellow alcoholic. There will be no talking down to
the
inebriate (the A.A. realizes that he is only one drink away
from
sharing the same plight). There will be no moralizing (the
A.A.
will freely give him another drink if needed to steady him).
There
will be no excuses putting off the central point of the
discussion: does the drinker want to stop drinking? The
A.A., you
phone service that will gladly supply information and, if
necessary, assistance.
Alcoholics
Anonymous, as all its literature is labeled, "has
no opinion on any controversial subject, nor does it oppose
anyone." It is neutral on the "Wet versus Dry"
debate. It
is deliberately and officially neutral on the question of
religious affiliation, leaving that matter to the personal
choice
of each member. It rather expects that the A.A. "Way
of Life" will
make a member a more ardent believer in his personal faith,
a
better Protestant, a more faithful Catholic, a more loyal
Jew. In
this its claims are reminiscent of its Oxford Group heritage,
with
its emphasis on "the simple message of Christianity"
and its
preoccupation with moral effort. Whatever danger there is
for
Catholics that a vague moralizing and subjective feeling
of God's
omnipresent guidance might be substituted for dogmatic belief
in
the Church and the spiritual resources of the sacraments
is
readily forestalled. Alcoholics Anonymous welcomes the interest
and cooperation of the Catholic clergy. It urges its Catholic
members to use the full spiritual supports of the faith.
AEvery
A.A. carries in his pocket (or in her purse) this
prayer : "God grant us the serenity to accept things
we cannot
change, courage to change things we can, and wisdom to know
the
difference." That expresses a spiritual stance helpful
towards
peace of soul for non-alcoholics as well.
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