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INSTITUTE
OF PASTORAL PSYCHOLOGY, 1957 A
CLERGYMAN'S VIEWPOINT
FREDERICK G. LAWRENCE, M.S.SS.T.
The
title of this paper is very important. I have been asked
to give one Clergyman's viewpoint on Alcoholics Anonymous.
I shall
endeavour to do just that. Not any other clergyman's viewpoint.
Just mine. It shall differ, I am sorry to say, from what
you may
have heard or read expressed as the viewpoint of other clergymen
on this subject. But I can speak for no one save myself.
My
opinion, my viewpoint is the result of many years of close
association with Alcoholics Anonymous, a little formal education
in regard to the problem of alcoholism, but mostly, it has
been
formed by the edification and inspiration, the veritable
miracles
I have seen wrought, in the Alcoholics Anonymous fellowship.
At
the end of the paper, I have listed some of the chief references
to the work of Alcoholics Anonymous.
ALCOHOLICS
ANONYMOUS BEST THERAPY
First
of all, therefore, let me express my viewpoint on
Alcoholics Anonymous. Then will follow the "why"
of this opinion.
TO ME, ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS IS THE BEST THERAPY EXISTING
TODAY FOR
ASSISTING MOST ACTIVE ALCOHOLICS TO A MAINTAINED AND A HAPPY
SOBRIETY.
I
say that it is the "best" therapy, because there
are others
that have achieved, if even in a lesser degree, some success
in
the treatment of sick alcoholics. And the adjective "most"
precedes the words "active alcoholics" because
some, due to a
neurotic condition, a deep-seated psychosis, or definite
brain
damage, need professional medical care, which A.A. as such,
cannot
offer. Finally, the words "maintained" and "happy"
condition the
noun "sobriety," for I see little value in sobriety
that is not
lasting, and even less value in sobriety that is not enjoyed
or
happy.
Now
- an explanation on why I entertain such a viewpoint. May
I beg your indulgences as I tell you how my interest in
A.A. came
to be? It was born of gratitude; gratitude to God for an
answer to
a seemingly insoluble problem. One year after ordination,
filled
with the zeal of St. Paul, I was placed in charge of a
geographically large, numerically small parish in southeastern
Alabama. Of the 65,000 souls who lived in the 3,500 square
miles
serviced by our parish, only some 35 to 40 were Catholics.
Yet,
into this small number God tucked one very, very sick alcoholic.
I
tried to help her to correct her problem. Every spiritual
aid I
could think of was suggested and tried - the pledge, novenas,
the
rosary, aspirations, spiritual communions, frequent visits
to the
Blessed Sacrament, even daily Mass and Communion. Nothing
seemed
to effect the desired results. As a matter of fact, the
problem
grew worse instead of better. Six months after I had been
introduced to this poor woman, she, on her own, joined A.A.
When,
after a period of a month's sobriety, she invited me to
attend an
open meeting, I was so grateful to God for the success she
was
having, and so curious to see what had caused it, that I
went. It
was definitely a case of "I went; I saw; I was conquered,"
for I
have been going to A.A. meetings ever since, and that first
one
was in January of 1946. And - lest you wonder - my parishioner
who
joined at that time is still sober and active in A.A.
Generally,
in speaking with clergymen about my interest in
Alcoholics Anonymous, I am asked a series of questions.
I feel the
answers to these questions will very well cover my viewpoint
on
Alcoholics Anonymous, and therefore I would like to present
them
to you today.
First
of all - Did I find anything new in A.A.? Not exactly.
What I heard, read, and saw had a very familiar note in
the
beginning. Later I realized that the A.A. philosophy was
basically
nothing more than a Christian way of life, presented in
a little
different fashion, perhaps, and disguised in a new vocabulary,
but
fundamentally the teachings of Jesus Christ. Undoubtedly,
this is
what made it, from the very outset, so attractive to me.
Did
I find A.A. some overpowering, perplexing philosophy?
Again the answer is "no." It is a simple program,
with twelve
simple suggested steps, and simple mottoes, such as "Think"-"Easy
Does It"-"A Day at a Time"-"Live and
Let Live"-"But for the grace
of God." I found the members to be as simple as children,
as
sincere as saints, and I remembered that a requisite for
sanctity
is that we become as little children.
Did
I find anything un-Christian, or un-Catholic about A.A.?
Most decidedly not! Rather did I find in A.A. a wonderful
specific alignment of Christ's teachings as applying to
THIS
PROBLEM. This program not only does not contradict any Faith
of
any adherent, it actually complements their faith. I found
that
Catholics who lived the A.A. program were better Catholics
because
of A.A. As a matter of record, I might say I have never
seen the
virtue of charity, the great commandment of love of neighbor,
more
universally practiced than I have seen it lived by the members
of
A.A.
Why
has A.A. been so successful when so many other programs
have failed? I believe that the first among these reasons
is the
recognition on the part of A.A. that alcoholism is a threefold
sickness. For centuries, the human race has considered,
accepted,
and discussed alcoholism as being basically, essentially,
if not
exclusively, a moral problem; an evidence of lack of will
power on
the part of those afflicted. It is my considered opinion
that most
people still view it in this light.
Alcoholics
Anonymous, on the other hand, maintains that
alcoholism is a sickness of the body and mind, as well as
of the
soul. Thus the A.A. therapy suggests a correcting and eliminating
of the spiritual problem that afflicts all alcoholics to
a greater
or lesser degree. A.A. members further maintain that neither
the
physiologist, nor the psychiatrist, nor the clergyman alone
has
the answer, but all three must work together. A threefold
correcting must be affected or no lasting results can be
produced.
To
draw an analogy with the famous story of "The Leak
in the
Dike," had there been three leaks, instead of one,
the little
lad's finger could not have averted the disaster. Three
fingers
would have been necessary or destruction would have ensued.
Why
do I think A.A. works? Because it is a positive program
of rehabilitation, and every alcoholic needs, in some degree
to be
rehabilitated, not imprisoned or incarcerated, not condemned
or
ridiculed, not shunned or over-protected. A.A. does not
simply ask
the alcoholic to stop drinking, as we do when we administer
a
pledge. A.A. suggests a new way of life to the alcoholic,
and then
makes suggestions as to how he may follow it. Sobriety is
basic,
essential, a "sine qua non," if you will, but
like Baptism - it is
only the beginning. The twelve suggested steps lead to a
serenity
for which the Alcoholics Anonymous members plead in the
very first
line of their so-called "A.A. Prayer;"-"God
grant me the
serenity." And the effectiveness of the A.A. program
in the life
of its members is in direct proportion to the success they
have in
accepting, understanding, and applying these twelve steps
to their
lives.
A.A.
is a simple program, but it definitely is not an easy
program. "Easy does it," but the alcoholic has
to do it! The
twelve steps are but tools to be used by the alcoholic in
sculpting from the clay of a broken life, a new existence.
But, he
must do it! No one can do it for him. He is simply presented
with
the tools. He produces their effectiveness. Gathering dust
from
lack of use, growing dull from lack of understanding, the
steps
are useless. But taken one by one, and applied to daily
living,
they can make of the most desperate derelict, an edifying
image of
the God who dwells within us all.
What
is the nature of the A.A. therapy? A.A. is a program of
education, or introspection, if you will. It borrows from
the
ancient Greek philosophers the admonition,"Know thyself,"
when it
suggests each member take a "searching and fearless
moral
inventory." Being creatures of habit, it is important
that the
members of A.A. recognize the habits that rule his life.
He must
decide which habits are good, and which are evil; how the
good can
be developed, and the evil eliminated. Thus A.A. members
talk of
removing "wrongs, short comings, defects of character."
The
desired goal is the habit of sobriety. It is aquired only
by much
practice, much determined action, much accentuation of the
positive and elimination of the negative.
A
study of the twelve suggested steps will reveal that each
required the practice of a virtue where once vice or imperfection
ruled. Thus the first step suggests humility be substituted
for
pride; the second, faith in God for self-conceit; the third,
trust
in God for despair; the fourth, truthfulness for falsehood;
the
fifth, simplicity for duplicity; the sixth, sincerity for
sham;
the seventh, meekness for arrogance; the eighth, love of
God for
love of self; the ninth, honesty for hypocrisy; the tenth,
fortitude for insincerity; the eleventh, prayerfulness for
godlessness; and the twelfth, love of neighbor for intolerance.
Finally,
what is the secret of continued success in A.A.? I
think it depends upon the member's ability to maintain his
"sense
of awareness." He cannot afford to forget. For him,
it takes a
lifetime to be a success, just a second to suffer a relapse.
His
creed is:"Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic."
His is a
sickness that can be arrested, but never cured. One drink
shall
always be too many, a thousand never enough. And this "sense
of
awareness" is best maintained, all A.A. members will
tell you, by
attendance at meetings; associating with other members;
reading
the A.A. literature; applying the twelve step program to
their
lives twenty-four hours of every day, a day at a time.
This,
therefore, is my viewpoint on Alcoholics Anonymous. It
is the best therapy existing today for assisting most active
alcoholics to a maintained and a happy sobriety. I hope
the
reasons given have been sufficiently sound to induce you
to agree
with me. If so, then my admiration and enthusiasm for this
Christlike fellowship will have won it new friends among
the
clergy. If so, then more alcoholics will receive the understanding
sympathy and counsel that they need from those of us who
have been
ordained to help all men attain their eternal destiny -
to be
happy with God forever. It is my prayer that all of you
will allow
the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous to assist you in
helping
all alcoholics achieve this goal.
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