SILKWORTH
The Little Doctor Who Loved Drunks
Author:
DALE MITCHEL
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Foreword
by
Adelaide Silkworth
"Can
you tell me something about Dr. William Silkworth?" a pleasant
voice asked on my telephone one cold and wintry morning early
in January 2001. The pleasant voice continued, "I want
to tell the story of a very unusual man, perhaps unappreciated
in his day, who was heavily involved in the founding of Alcoholics
Anonymous and obsessed in the treatment of alcohol addiction."
This statement introduced me to Dale and what I came to believe
was his epephany. He spoke of his urgent mission to write a
biography of the doctor, my husband's uncle. Our subsequent
conversations that winter reawakened many of my memories of
the good doctor. Recollections it seems that only I have as
the lone survior and keeper of the family legends, personal
memories, and very importantly, Uncle Doc's writings, articles,
speeches, personal papers, memorabilia, and correspondence,
all of which had lain for forty-five years in a file drawer
in our home. There never seemed to be time during those years
to read and appreciate Bill II's legacy. So began my frienship
with Daleon the phone.
I remember Uncle Doc as a rather
small man with beautiful piercing blue eyes, white hair, well
dressed, and with a kind and gentle manner. He was "remote
and revered" as my husband would often say. His arresting
blue eyes would sometimes gaze abstractly as though he was somewhere
with those patients of his. He was after all, a doctor in the
year 1900, an amazing accomplishment for the elder son of a
very middle class family from Long Branch, New Jersey, who became
a celebrity. During a few family visits to his home in Scarsdale,
New York, he showed my husband, his nephew and namesake, his
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magnificent
gardens and always wanted to hear about Bill II's wartime
adventures in the navy. Aunt Annette, grey haired, dignified,
every inch the doctor's wife, reassured me, a novice gardener,
that impatiens were the most dependable annuals. Family visits
were few because the doctor's younger brother, Russell, and
sister, Mabel, knew that the patients always came first. Holidays
didn't matter. In times of need the good doctor was there.
He cared for Russell during two bouts with TB. He helped Bill
II in his efforts to be accepted at Annapolis or West Point.
Remote, perhaps but there.
When my husband and I were far from
New York and vacation traveling, it was not at all unusual
for a person to quietly ask Bill II, "are you any relation
to Dr. Silkworth?" There followed, many times, some comments
about changing lives, sometimes a choked tear or two. We knew
exactly what these secretive encounters meant. Uncle Doc's
spirit was becoming worldwide.
When copying and reading through
the old collection of Uncle Doc's papers, articles, and letters,
I came to realize with awe that here lived one of God's treasures,
one of God's greats, a true hero who hid his light quite successfully
in a modest, disarmingly gentle and unassuming manner. He
unflaggingly carried forth his crusade to treat alcoholism
as a disease, which was a revolutionary idea in his time.
He took risks and financial losses to help nurture the beginning
steps of Alcoholics Anonymous and to validate the visions
of Bill W. and Dr. Bob. Uncle Doc was not a church-going religious
man that I know of but his insistence on a spiritual grounding
and the acknowledgment of a Higher Power for alcoholic recovery
labels him the AA publication Grapevine declared a
"doctor saint."
Through Dale's efforts a problem
that had vexed and troubled my husband and me for years was
solved. What to do with the Doctor's memorabilia? from Dale
I learned of the Dr. William Silkworth unit at the Hazelden
Treatment Center in Minnesota. After visiting there in June
it was apparent to me that Hazelden was the appropriate location
for my husband's legacy. Hazelden will have permanent loan
of all of Uncle Doc's collection to be displayed and archived
and placed where it really belongs.
Uncle Doc was a true benefactor and
humanitarian. He earned the
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title
the "little doctor who loved drunks." The Silkworth
family is very proud of him, his achievements, and his place
in AA history. It is a great honor for me to be part of
this story even though I am only a niece by marriage. Dale's
epiphany an invaluable record for all the Silkworth descendants,
for Alcoholics Anonymous, for those whose lives have been
shattered by addiction and for those whose lives have been
repaired, for celebrations of sobriety, and finally for
the world to read and be inspired and grateful for Dr. William
Duncan Silkworth's life.
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